Communications, conversation and learning about each other will strengthen your marriage relationship. A conversation is sort of like dancing with your spouse. There is a mutual push and pull that makes the conversation meaningful. Be sure to ask open ended questions, not yes or no questions. Here are some conversation starters in the form of questions to ask your spouse:
Q: What makes you feel most alive and energized?
Q: If you could go anywhere in the world where would it be and what would you do?
Q: What adds most to your emotional bank account; acts of service, physical affection, encouraging words, gifts, quality time together?
Q: What is your best memory of your life?
Q: What is your favorite family tradition or holiday from your childhood?
Q: If you could ask one question of God right now and He would give you an audible answer what would it be?
Q: What three words best describe you and why?
Q: Your house is on fire, what three items would you grab on the way out the door?
Q: What small change would help improve our marriage relationship?
Q: What do you like about our marriage?
FireLighter Sparks 